If You Are Black or Brown in America, Your Parents' Warnings Can't Keep You Safe


(AP Photo/St. Louis Post-Dispatch, David Carson)

Terrell Williams El embraces his daughter Sharell, 9, next to his wife, Shamika Williams, and daughters Tamika, 6, and Shanell, 2, in Ferguson, Mo. on Wednesday, Aug. 13, 2014 after Terrell Williams El confronted police during a protest.

This article was originally published by the Crunk Feminist Collective.

When we are young, often too young to fully understand the anxiety in their voices and the fear in their eyes, many of us listen to our parents tell us how to behave when, not if, we are stopped by the police.

Usually these cautions beseech us to be aware of our surroundings, comply and assert our compliance out loud, to be polite and cooperative, not combative or defiant.  They tell us the things they think will protect us. They tell us not to be alone. They tell us to be vigilant. They know what we will face. They are black, brown, immigrant, documented and undocumented. They have survived wars. They are our mothers and fathers. Our grandparents and older siblings. Our concerned neighbors and friends. They want to keep us safe. We might not yet know how difficult it is to stay safe, because we are small and bold. Because we are tender and free. But the fear and worry seeps into their voices, because they have seen the world. The fear and worry becomes part of us, too.

Then, as we become adults, sometimes well before then, we discover the lie.

We can genuflect and comply. We can raise our arms in the air and scream that we are unarmed. We can look up at the police with our hands behind our heads and our knees on the ground. We can wait in line through checkpoints to get water and work. We can crawl through the desert in the night with our babies on our back. We will still be counted as collateral damage. That’s if we are counted at all.

We can fire a warning shot into the air to protect our children. We can follow all the rules and get all the papers. We can work twenty-hour days in the field. Our compliance will not protect us. Our papers will not save us. The police are not here to protect us. In their eyes, which we see from behind riot gear, we are not human. We are not their charge.

Because we survived this long. Because we made it here. Because we never left. Because our bodies are proof.

In this country, a black person is killed by a security officer every 28 hours. On Saturday, in Ferguson, Missouri, a white police officer shot and killed 18 year-old Michael Brown.

Now all we are left with is a series of heartbreaking truths.

Michael Brown is dead. Next week he was to start college. His friend and several others witnessed his murder. His body was left uncovered in the street for hours. The police officer that murdered Michael is on paid administrative leave. Police showed up to the candlelight vigil held for him wearing riot gear. His mother is left to try and understand why her sweet boy is not home with her. Surely, she had a conversation with him about the police and how to try and stay safe from them. It could not protect him from the weapons they brought. We imagine that it could be us.

The town of Ferguson is burning. With tear-gas and a righteous rage.

We are left to try and make sense of these facts. This story is not new. There is no sense to be made here.


While there's much validity to your assertion that minorities are stopped far more frequently than they should be, trying to use Michael Brown, who committed a felony robbery and assaulted a police officer fracturing his face, and then charged him when ordered to stop is irresponsible. No investigation is complete, facts are fragmentary, yet you choose to claim Brown was murdered. The biggest problem with the DAs office and police departments across the country is that we allow the police to police themselves. Civilian review boards with the power and standing to bring criminal charges should be mandatory. Hopefully by more objective people than yourself.

There was a white young man killed accidentally in California recently. Why isn't there a media firestorm over that one? Is it because there is no political benefit. Al sharpton couldn't show up to stir up the racism. The media absolutely loves it when black young men are killed. There's no story when a white young man is killed. Al sharpton don't give a dam, neither does Jessy Jackson. Obama loves it too. Him or his henchman will show up when black men are killed, when white men are killed not so much as a head nod. Sick society. Good luck America

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